Birashobora kugorana kumenya igihe umuntu ari muri wowe. Kumenya ibyiyumvo byumuntu, cyane cyane niba atanabimenye, birashobora kugorana kandi mubyukuri kwangirika kwimitsi. Ibi rwose ni ukuri kubasore, bashobora kutazahora ari beza mugutumanaho uko bumva. Niba kandi rwose uri muri uyu musore, birashoboka ko uhangayikishijwe no kumenya uko akwiyumvamo, cyangwa niba agukunda nkuko umukunda.
Niba witeguye kumva neza igikundiro cyawe cyangwa gukunda ibyiyumvo byinyungu, dore ibintu 7 azakora niba agukunda byimazeyo.
1.Amaso ye arabivuga byose.
Ikimenyetso kinini cyerekana ko umusore agukunda nuburyo akureba. Ashobora kutabivuga, ariko niba aguye kubwawe, azakureba akana ko mu jisho.
2.Agushyira imbere.
Abantu bafata umwanya kubyo bashaka, kandi mubisanzwe bitanga urwitwazo mugihe badashimishijwe. Niba umusore wawe ahuze – haba kumurimo, ishuri cyangwa inshuti – kandi aracyahora aguha umwanya, iki nikimenyetso kigaragara cyerekana ko akwitayeho rwose.
3.Agukundira uko uri.
Abasore bamwe barashobora kwifuza ko ukora cyangwa kwambara muburyo runaka kugirango ushimishe ibyo bakeneye. Ariko niba umusore ari muri wowe rwose, azakwemera uwo uriwe, abishaka kandi abigiranye urukundo.
4.Agusha kubitekerezo byubaka.
Niba umusore atakwitayeho rwose, ntibazashora imari kugirango bakubwire igihe urangije umukino wawe. Bashobora guhamya byoroshye ko wiyangiza cyangwa ufata ibyemezo bibi, kandi ntibakwitayeho bihagije kugirango baguhe ibitekerezo. Ariko umusore ugukunda byukuri azaguhamagara mubintu byawe, kuko bakwitayeho bihagije kugirango bagufashe kuba mwiza.
5.Ashyigikiye ibyifuzo byawe.
Umusore ukwitayeho rwose ntabwo azizera ko uzagera ku nzozi zawe gusa, ahubwo azagutera inkunga cyane kubikora. Arakora ibintu nkibigufasha kungurana ibitekerezo kubitekerezo bishya kubucuruzi bwawe, kwiga buri gihe hamwe nawe kwishuri, cyangwa no kwigaragaza kumubiri kubikorwa byawe bwite cyangwa umwuga.
6.Agufasha gukora ibintu byawe byose.
Urashobora kubona rwose uko umuntu akwiyumvamo nukwitegereza imyitwarire yabo mubihe bitoroshye. Aracyakwemeza ko umeze neza nyuma yo gutongana? Aragufasha gukora ibintu nubwo bigabanya igihe cye cyubusa? Gito, ariko ibikorwa byiza nkibi byerekana imico ye nukuri kuri wewe.
7.Agushyira mubuzima bwe.
Niba umusore atari muri wowe rwose, ntuzamenya byinshi mubuzima bwe hanze yimikoranire nawe. Niba uzi inshuti magara z’umusore wawe, ibyo akunda gutembera ahantu hamwe nibyo akunda – cyangwa niyo ahora akugezaho amakuru yumunsi we – uyu musore rwose aragukunda.
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